I used to
think that an archetypal approach to socionics is not desirable,
which is why I disliked the very idea of type descriptions. I
believed that it is reductive to describe a specific person and then
claim that all members of the same type are like that – after all,
behavior is highly influenced by circumstances that have nothing to
do with one’s socionics type, such as one’s age, country,
culture, upbringing, financial situation, mental health etc. It
seemed obvious to me that there is way more variety in human
personalities, and that such a huge portion of the population as a
(roughly) one-sixteenth cannot, and does not, act as similarly as the
type descriptions would have you believe. Therefore, I used to say,
when determining someone’s type, one should only focus on their
model A function stack. Instead of saying someone is an IEI because
they are gentle, dreamy and creative, justify their leading Ni,
vulnerable Te, suggestive Se etc. Everything less than that does not
deserve to be taken seriously.
For the
most part, that is still what I believe. I maintain that archetypes,
such as those evoked by type descriptions, should never be used in
place of a proper model A justification. However, as I gained more
socionics knowledge, I became more tolerant to the idea of archetypes
itself – if done right. But what does it mean to do an archetype
right?
Firstly,
archetypes should always be confirmed through personal experience
with people of the type, and the reason for which you believe those
people are that type should not be based on the archetype in
question. In other words – if, after reading an IEI type
description, you decide that all dreamy people are IEIs and those who
are not dreamy cannot be IEIs, what this means is that you have
created a vicious circle that will prevent you from ever being able
to break your initial assumption. If an IEI who is not dreamy does
exist, you will not type them IEI in the first place, and will not
recognize them as evidence against your assumption that “IEI =
dreamy”. To avoid this, you should have at least several people
whom you typed IEI through model A and without the aid of archetypes,
and use them as a reference for what IEIs are really like. Only after
you notice some common themes between those people can you start
forming an IEI archetype.
The word
“theme” is important since, in my opinion, an archetype should
not include specific personality or behavioral traits, such as “IEIs
are dreamy” or “Se leads are domineering”. Instead it should be
closer to a particular theme that permeates the type’s life and is
dictated by the function stack. The idea of “vices” as used in
enneagram is, perhaps, the closest to what I am thinking of here.
This
brings us to EIEs.
In truth,
talking about EIEs is the initial reason for which I started writing
this post. I was asked to describe how I see this type, and when I
was pondering this request, I realized that I would have a hard time
fulfilling it without resorting to archetypes. And this is because
the thing that made me feel like I finally understood EIEs was a
song, which I will talk about in a bit. First, let’s establish a
baseline.
In my
understanding, socionics sensation focuses on what currently exists.
Si is dynamic; it focuses on the interdependence of existing
processes and factors, i. e. how different factors go together to
create a whole, and which of these factors can be changed to change
this whole. Se is static; it focuses on the external properties and
positioning of the objects occupying real or metaphorical space, i.
e. how these objects can be moved or forced to change their form
through pressure applied to them, as well as how this pressure can be
resisted. Sensation is concrete.
Since
socionics sensation focuses on what currently exists, this means
that, to avoid overlap, intuition has to focus on what does not
currently exist. Ni is dynamic; it focuses on sequential
interdependence of processes and events, i. e. which past events led
to the existing state, and which events are likely to happen in the
future based on the way things are now. Ne is static; it focuses on
all different states an object can possibly be in, aside from what it
is like now (this is why Ne is linked to potential). Intuition is
abstract.
EIE is an
intuitive type (weak sensation, strong intuition). Due to this, and
especially due to their vulnerable Si, an EIE’s understanding of
how to directly change the existing state of things is noticeably
limited. I think that an insufficient understanding of this fact is
at the root of many mistypes in the community, with highly energetic,
boisterous and forceful individuals getting typed EIE because of
their supposed valued Se. In reality an EIE, like all intuitive
types, will always be a bit detached from the concrete situation they
are a part of. An EIE will not be able to force their way into the
situation and directly change its course, since that ability requires
sensation. Instead an EIE will wait for a good opening and capitalize
on it, injecting themselves into the situation with minimal energy
expenses.
Now
let’s talk about the song I mentioned before. That song is Rock
'n' Roll Suicide by David Bowie, who is widely acknowledged to be
an EIE (an accurate assessment in my eyes).
Oh no, love! You're not alone
You're watching yourself but you're too unfair
You got your head all tangled up
But if I could only make you care
Oh no, love! You're not alone
No matter what or who you've been
No matter when or where you've seen
All the knives seem to lacerate your brain
I've had my share, I'll help you with the pain
You're not alone!
These
lyrics mark the point where the tone of the song changes. The music
starts sounding more intense, more oppressive and grave. Bowie’s
voice grows more full of emotion and less controlled, to the point
where, at the very end, he is screaming his lines rather than
singing. After that Ziggy Stardust, the character portrayed by Bowie,
gets torn apart onstage.
Now this
post is going to get very subjective, as I will give my
interpretation of this song. If any Bowie fans are reading this – I
apologize if it is incorrect, but I want to talk about the
associations that formed in my mind as I was listening to it.
The lyrics
express a deep, sophisticated empathy to whoever might be listening,
and an equally deep desire to bring them relief. Bowie’s delivery
makes the latter half of the song sound as a desperate plea, and if
you watch the live performance, even his facial expression looks
pained during that part.
I interpreted that pain and that desperation
as a result of Ziggy desiring to alleviate others’ pain, desiring
it more than anything else, but seeing no way to actually achieve it.
The only thing he can do is plead with others so that they see
themselves through his own eyes, and offer them a temporary ecstasy
of unity. And, despite his burning passion – or because of it –
the character is already doomed, destined to die on that stage. At
that point he does not even care for self-preservation, perhaps ready
to sacrifice himself.
Listening
to this I felt like I finally understood. Because EIEs are Fe leads,
they are able to truly feel and internalize others’ emotions, even
the most painful ones. And, because EIEs are Ti suggestives, deep
inside even the most cynical ones are likely to desire justice.
Leading Fe and suggestive Ti are one and the same, they cannot exist
without each other – and being able to empathize with others’
suffering so strongly will naturally lead to a desire to right that
wrong. But there is a core difference between an ESE and EIE – an
EIE is intuitive, so their ability to directly alter the situation is
limited. An EIE is more likely to feel stuck, seeing all the
suffering but feeling unable to do anything about it. Due to this an
EIE is more likely to become jaded and nihilistic, and to start
feeling like the world is a horrible place and cannot be fixed. And
if they do, still, try to inflict change, it is likely to come with a
self-sacrificing streak, due to their weak sensation leading EIEs to
feel like it is impossible to make an impact without getting harmed
in the process. And that is the difference between an ESE and an EIE:
an ESE is more hopeful, which comes from their higher ability to
actually change the undesirable situation directly – something that
to an EIE is way less achievable.
This was
my example of an archetype. As you can see, my understanding is very
instinctive and still not fully developed. However, I hope that I was able to offer some insight or a
new perspective, since I was planning to write this post for a while.